Stop having a sexual relationship with him...in this situation it seems as though he only sees you for your physical actions. i completely understand this. i feel as though I am used for only sexual actions as well...but you have to stand up for yourself.. and know whats right...women are seen as toys and useless material that should only be used for pleasure and sex..and we support this image by looking at porn and carrying ourselfs in sluty ways...be careful...tell him you don't want to be intimate and see how he reacts...guaranteed....if he likes you for you...it wouldn't even bother him...but if he acts different...well hmmmm....you need to move on..and be careful....much love babe! God Bless...