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David
158 posts |
#82185 2008-05-13 14:12 GMT |
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I am a 16 y/o guy. I have a gf that most people consider to be really "hot" and we've had sex probably more than 50 times. (I dont mean to brag) But, theres a problem. I do not orgasm easy.. at all.. I am a few inches above average and I have stayed hard for over 2 hours with her but I always get her off before i do, and since she has pretty strong orgasms we wait a few mins before going again so I loose the feeling and it happens all over again. So, point is, she has never gotten me off before, hand, head, intercourse, i have not gotten off. I have always had to sit there for a min and do it myself and i feel stupid. Someone help. How can I get off easier?
A few side notes, don't say I'm not 16 and that im probably an old guy, why would i tell the internet this much if i didnt need help. I'm far from gay. And I do not smoke. Also, this is the second time I have asked this question, I just want to see a few different responses. Thanks a lot for the ppl that are really trying to help |
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KittyInCollinder
156 posts |
#82186 2008-05-13 14:15 GMT |
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well... what do you do for yourself that she isnt doing?... maybe try having her do what you do for yourself and maybe she can get you off...
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Dex
182 posts |
#82187 2008-05-13 14:15 GMT |
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Nah I'm pretty sure you're gay.
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Grapes
168 posts |
#82188 2008-05-13 14:16 GMT |
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IS SHE FAT AND UGLY?
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Virus
170 posts |
#82189 2008-05-13 14:16 GMT |
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Become a porn star.
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CatNap
166 posts |
#82190 2008-05-13 14:17 GMT |
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Well what are your turn ons? My husband can last forever, but when I do CERTAIN things to him or to myself, he's unable to hold it in!
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Foal
154 posts |
#82191 2008-05-13 14:17 GMT |
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quit asking sex questions. 16 is WAY too young to even think about sex. are you ready for a family:? say the girl gets pregnant and you want an abortion. that takes a toll on her and has a chance of enabling her of future pregnancies.
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Fairground
137 posts |
#82192 2008-05-13 14:17 GMT |
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she needs to keep going for longer with oral and her hand, just tell her..
what is the point in saying your only 16, im 16 too, plenty of 16 year olds have sex and hes asking a question not asking you to give him a lecture |
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StrangerHere
139 posts |
#82193 2008-05-13 14:18 GMT |
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You could try to do it faster and harder. Pay more attention on your pleasure then on hers. Try to mix it up with different positions and see which ones feel better, so they will work better.
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Chips
160 posts |
#82194 2008-05-13 14:18 GMT |
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ya need a nite wiv me lol
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HappyHamster
144 posts |
#82195 2008-05-13 14:18 GMT |
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Well you could always get her to maybe wait until you do or wait until you are about to & tell her to go!
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Splishsplash
163 posts |
#82196 2008-05-13 14:19 GMT |
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wtf does smoking have to do with this stupid a** question? My boyfriend smokes and he gets off just fine and believe me it is awesome.
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FeralFeline
165 posts |
#82197 2008-05-13 14:20 GMT |
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WHERE are your & her parents while this activity is going on???
This is ADULT behavior that needs to utilized only by ADULTS, not CHILDREN (as yourself). You have a SEX question, then talk to your PARENTS. They would be DELIGHTED to find out how "experienced" their baby boy has become! 051308 1:20 |
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CaptainCrunch
161 posts |
#82198 2008-05-13 14:20 GMT |
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Maybe you need to get a female, a bit more experienced, to show your GF how to "get you off". Or go get some porn movies and have her watch girls giving guys head.
The Rat |
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Mysterious
152 posts |
#82199 2008-05-13 14:20 GMT |
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Just concentrate on it, don't think that you will always feel that way because it will just surely control your mind. Think you can do it!
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Chips
160 posts |
#82200 2008-05-13 14:20 GMT |
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wow, that sucks. ummm, im not really sure how to make this better for u. maybe u could try some different positions. or maybe kinkier things like role playing or something? if not, maybe u should practice a little on ur own and c what it takes to make u cum when ur masturbating. maybe its thinking about something in particular, idk.
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LostIsland
148 posts |
#82201 2008-05-13 14:20 GMT |
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maybe you should play with yourself more before you two have sex or ask her to give you a bj before you two have sex so that way you come when she does or sooner
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Paperclip
155 posts |
#82202 2008-05-13 14:20 GMT |
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Okay, from what i have noticed (and yes, i am a virgin, but i know what i am talkin about)... when you "choke your chicken", it seems that guys use that "PC" muscle (so i have heard it called)... when you are having sex with her, you need to use that same muscle... what i am talkin about is like, when you are going pee, and you have to pump out the last few squirts that you couldn't get out, and you pump it out, you use a muscle down there to do so...
yeah, make sure you kinda got it a lil contracted... it's hard to explain, but that's what really activates the nerves to get you off... |
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ScareyTree
159 posts |
#82203 2008-05-13 14:23 GMT |
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It is one of a few things:
1) You are mentally not ready for sex, and you brain is trying to tell you that. And the harder you try, the more you will fail. Many males can have that problem if they are not really in love (real love -- not puppy love or lust). Wait till you are older, or married. 2) You have a medical problem and need your parents to take you to a doctor. 3) Yes, you may actually be gay, and a girl (or maybe just this girl) does not do it for you. |
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MardyMarsupial
168 posts |
#82204 2008-05-13 17:52 GMT |
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You are ONLY 16 !
You are still a boy! Your body isn't even fully developed yet! You are so NOT ready, so NOT ready for: 1. Fatherhood 2. Std's of all forms and irritations and flare-ups 3. AID's exposure, learning how to fix them coctails 4. Shotgun Wedding 5. Time in jail for "rape" 6. Addiction to porn when the physical act ain't nuff no mo 7. Answering to your kids 20~ yrs from now about the HAZARDS of premarital sex (physical, psychological, emotional) Lots of lessons ta learn, huh? |
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suzi4love
227 posts |
#84906 2008-06-28 05:32 GMT |
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Dearest One ,
My name is Miss Mary I saw your profile today at forum.seductionstar.com and i became interested in you, I will also like to know you more, and I want you to send an email to my email address so I can give you my picture for you to know whom I am. Here is my email address (mary_love2088@yahoo.com) I believe we can move from here. I am waiting for your mail to my email address above name. Miss Mary (Remember the distance or colour does not matter but love matters a lot in life Yours Love Miss Mary. |
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