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NightCrawler
136 posts |
#82172 2008-05-13 14:27 GMT |
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i am 17 and i have a boyfriend who is 18. He lives with my sister and brothers in the house they all pay for. we have ben seeing eachother for about 10mounths now and we really love eachother,its not just puppylove like some might think. but the problem is my mom. she is realy strict bi*ch. she wont allow me to go anywhere with my friends thats why i dont really have any. she just dosent understand me and thinks im just some wild teen i guess. but if she knew that i was seeing the guy im seeing i know i would neve see him again. idont know what to tell her or if i even should.
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Biohazard
148 posts |
#82173 2008-05-13 14:31 GMT |
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Talk to her and prove to her that you're responsible and can make decisions. Hopefully then she should be more open minded.
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StoneHenge
142 posts |
#82174 2008-05-13 14:32 GMT |
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Your 17 years old act like it! She cant boss you around. Leave MOVE in with your brother and sister! she wont care. That or you can ask to stay with them over the summer or something you get the freaky on and your happy. PLUS your mom thinks your visiting your siblings
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Helen
175 posts |
#82175 2008-05-13 14:32 GMT |
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Believe it or not, your mom is a lot smarter than you think. She isn't trying to be mean and restrictive. She LOVES you and doesn't want to see you get hurt or go down any bad roads. Someday you'll understand this if you have children of your own. Soon you'll be 18 and you'll be an adult. Why don't you just "put up with" your mom until then. But I just think you should try to understand her point of view. One day you will.
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ToxicSkull
145 posts |
#82176 2008-05-13 14:32 GMT |
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ok, this may seem a hard thing to do, but talk to your mum about it like a daughter and mum chat and see what she says, or just talk to someone closest to you who will tell you what to do.good luck!
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SpikeyDesert
155 posts |
#82177 2008-05-13 14:33 GMT |
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Oh, brother. Some daughter you are. I couldn't get past you calling your mother, the woman who decided not to have an abortion, and give birth to you, a bi*ch.
I'm surprised you've had a boyfriend for one day! Also, I doubt if it's love at all. You sound very self-centered. He probably does things for you. The minute he quits, you'll be calling him names, too. Grow up. |
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Barbwire
173 posts |
#82178 2008-05-13 14:33 GMT |
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If she isn't asking why tell her as long as your not doing anything stupid you should be fine, just think a year goes by pretty quick!
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Goldfish
199 posts |
#82179 2008-05-13 14:33 GMT |
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I don't think you should. If you do, tell her when you have a plan *like running away or something*. Most likely sooner or later she'll forgive you or something. Or you can just sit her down and tell her WHY you like him and REALLY want to be with him and if she Still doesn't allow it. What i would do, {I'm not encouraging you} but i would definitely run away.
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CookieMonster
147 posts |
#82180 2008-05-13 14:34 GMT |
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well we can do somethin about that problem! u can blatantly do ur boyfrind on her bed... and say take that b*tch!!!.... lol J/K.... "no don't do that" if she can't accept the relationship thats her problem.... u'll be 18 soon right??? just wait till then and u can do what ever the hell u want...
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SpotsNDots
163 posts |
#82181 2008-05-13 14:34 GMT |
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Moms only look out for their kids, my mom didn't like most my friends when I was 17, and looking back I cant blame her some where bad news, as for the guy your with that's awesome that you believe your in love, and when you turn 18 she cant tell you want to do, just believe that you mom does have your best interests in mind -
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Retrogamer
168 posts |
#82182 2008-05-13 14:34 GMT |
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Well, for starters, calling your mom a bi*ch shows me you show little respect for your mother. She probably sees that as well as I do. Treating her like that isn't going to earn her trust any time soon. If you want your mother to respect you and your decisions, you have to start respecting her and hers. It is really hard to take your 17 year old daughter seriously about not feeling puppy love when she is whining about you being a strict bi*ch.
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Rocky
135 posts |
#82183 2008-05-13 14:36 GMT |
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You gain trust by being trustful. Your mom may be over protective which can be as bad as being to lenient. Lying to her about your boyfriend will only cause you trouble in the end when she finds out. She is strict for a reason and those reason may have nothing to do with you but instead with her own upbringing. Her parents may have been that way or just the opposite. All I know is this. She is wanting to protect you at all cost but sometimes that cost is detrimental to everyone. Kids don't want to be put in a closet and kept safe. They want to be let out and live life, experience things and have fun, and it's up to parents to set some limits while still letting their kids enjoy life. Talk to your mom about your life, about how you feel, about how she is treating you. She may lighten up.. if she doesn't.. then keep 18 in mind.. it'll be here soon. I hope things work out. Listen to her too. She knows more than you think.
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Tuskey
148 posts |
#82184 2008-05-13 14:37 GMT |
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Try not to sneak around, you will lose her trust. You need to do something to gain her trust, talk to her about other things in your life, and soon enough she will understand you than try telling her. Oh and try bring up you Dad, and how they feel in love!
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suzi4love
227 posts |
#84927 2008-06-28 05:36 GMT |
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