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Puppet Members 153 posts Location: Greenland Occupation: Paleontologist Age:	#82075 2008-05-13 15:50 GMT
	Well...I already did...I guess the question is. Do you think I did the right thing breaking up with my boyfriend? I can't possibly tell you everything we have ever been through since we dated for three years. But we were unseperable, always together. He was romantic and sweet....The past 3 months or so..hes been so distant we'll make plans and he'll break them all the time. We occasionally talk on the phone and online. His reasons for breaking the plans are always understandable...but there always obvious you shoulden't make plans on that same day if you know that you have other plans. Hes just not the guy he used to be...? Were always on or off for one reason or another. Not ALWAYS but we have quite frequently. Do you think I did the right thing?


Snowman Members 161 posts Location: Norway Occupation: Special agent Age:	#82076 2008-05-13 15:56 GMT
	Yes... i don't think it was a healthy relationship if you guys were on and off... You deserve to be happy and find someone else who can give you all of that...

Fairground Members 137 posts Location: Gibraltar Occupation: Wet nurse Age:	#82077 2008-05-13 15:57 GMT
	yes

Sparkle Members 156 posts Location: Rwanda Occupation: Garbage collector Age:	#82078 2008-05-13 15:57 GMT
	you did the right thing! dont feel so guilty about it, he had some issues going on and chose not to talk to you about it, instead, kept breaking promises to you. you did the right thing. believe this so you can move forward. good luck!

StarbucksCoffee Members 139 posts Location: Mauritius Occupation: Video game developer Age:	#82079 2008-05-13 15:57 GMT
	Yes, I Think that you did the right thing. If someone doesn't care enough about yu to not break plans and to change so much then they don't deserve you.

FuzzyFerret Members 177 posts Location: Bangladesh Occupation: Physiotherapist Age:	#82080 2008-05-13 15:58 GMT
	yup

pickapepper Members 161 posts Location: Australia Occupation: Steward or stewardess Age:	#82081 2008-05-13 16:00 GMT
	You only occasionally talk on the phone? That's a negative sign regarding the strength of your relationship. You haven't said anything for me to think your boyfriend was doing anything wrong, just that he isn't managing his time very well. Only you know if you've done the right thing. If you weren't getting from the relationship what you wanted, then there's no reason to be in it. However, from what you've said, it seems as you were a bit rushed and selfish to break up over you not thinking he has time for you, but I think more info would've been needed to confirm that. I guess your reasoning behind breaking up- his lack of time for you or that you guys are on/off would make the difference.

Candylover Members 165 posts Location: Algeria Occupation: Locksmith Age:	#82082 2008-05-13 16:05 GMT
	As long as you did what your heart felt was right. You have to please self and do things you are happy with. If you were no longer happy, the end was coming. Maybe this is what it takes to get his attention and turn his ear to listening to your concerns. If he listens and changes, that will be smart of him. If he doesn't change....this has been smart of you.

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