to be my gf ive all ways been the one to get asked out

doesnt matter, if she likes you shell say yes either way, dont worry about it

its way better if you ask her to go out with you!!! duh!!!

the first one unless you want her to b ur girlfriend, then i would use the second one

would you like to go out with me is a better question. its more personal....good luck*

Be cool about it... don't stress, if shes interested it wont matter what you ask or how... But do make sure what ever you do your both into... that way your both relaxed and able to have a good time, if a girl is having a good time it makes it easyer for conversation to flow.

Good Luck.... Have Fun =]

I wouldn't do either one. Both put her on the spot. Either she has to say yes or no, and that creates a lot of stress between the two of you at a time when you don't want it.

Instead of giving your potential future date an ultimatum, just tell her you are going to the local joint in your neighborhood for an ice cream later on this afternoon or this evening, and ask if she likes ice cream. At at that point, she has to say yes, but it leaves her an out. You haven't asked her to commit to having some kind of interest in you, only in ice cream. This is just an example, but it becomes much less stressful than the "ultimatum" questions you've proposed. Always leave your potential "date" a graceful way out.

Eventually, you will develop the correct approach to making your invitation. Don't be discouraged by a few failures. If you don't have a few failures, it's because you didn't make the effort often enough.