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LoveVolleyball
140 posts |
#51011 2008-01-12 01:12 GMT |
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Candylover
165 posts |
#51012 2008-01-12 01:14 GMT |
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I would leave him and start dating grown ups.
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Dolphinswimmer
161 posts |
#51013 2008-01-12 01:14 GMT |
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you need to find a real man not a big ass pussy who always does what his mommy tells him.
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Contageous
138 posts |
#51014 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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I'd tell my boyfriend to leave the cradle and be a man and if he loves you marry you. If not I'd seriously consider leaving him, that's just me though.
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DawnsAwaken
160 posts |
#51015 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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Okay wait how old is he? That happened with an ex of mine. He was still living at home, was 27, and would go home like he had a curfew at midnight!!!! He would tell me it was a sign of respect to his parents and that was why he did it. Needless to say we are no longer together. Thank goodness.
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SunsetOnParadise
172 posts |
#51016 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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omg..run! you don't want those people as your in laws
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MagicStick
160 posts |
#51017 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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I would leave him and start dating grown ups.
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LoneWolf
174 posts |
#51018 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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You should ask them why, and get down to the bottom of the problem. They may have a reason that can be solved easily with a few reassurances, or they may have a reason that somewhat makes sense. 27 is a good age for marriage, so there's no surface reason as to why they wouldn't want you guys to marry (unless they just plain don't like you).
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HartToHart
134 posts |
#51019 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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Be grateful that I'm not going to marry a male who still lives under his parents thumb. I need a man not a little boy.
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FeatheryRomance
140 posts |
#51020 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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I take it that he is around your age, so shouldn't he be making his own decisions?
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Discodancer
160 posts |
#51021 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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it depends on the situation, like why they wont allow it. but obviously if he's over 18 (hopefully) then he should learn to make his own decisions.
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TigerHen
161 posts |
#51022 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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...how old is my boyfriend?
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April
167 posts |
#51023 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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Ask his parents how they did it.
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WarmWater
142 posts |
#51024 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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how old is he? why won't they let him marry you? what's wrong with you?
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GiddyUp
153 posts |
#51025 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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i will leave him and find a guy who will stand up for me, who loves me enough to fight for me.
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JohnnyKnox
158 posts |
#51026 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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RUN as fast as you can!! momma's boys are the worst!!!
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BlossomTree
178 posts |
#51027 2008-01-12 01:15 GMT |
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If he's over 18 it's not their decision
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Kevin
169 posts |
#51028 2008-01-12 01:16 GMT |
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How old is he?
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Dolphinswimmer
161 posts |
#51029 2008-01-12 01:16 GMT |
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I'm 20 and I got married at 19 that's bullshit that he wont stand up to his parents. If he really loves you then he'll marry you, may'be he's just using his parent's as an excuse.
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JohnnyKnox
158 posts |
#51030 2008-01-12 01:16 GMT |
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Well if he isnt marrying you because of his parents he isnt ready to be married because he still needs his mommy to tell him what to do. I would say as hard as it is move on and find someone who does what they want.
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Commitment
158 posts |
#51031 2008-01-12 01:16 GMT |
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You have to break up then. Sorry.
It seems that you and your bf are full grown adults living your one and only life - but...in reality your bf is not standing up for himself. You can't stand up for both of you - it's you against the 3 of them. I'm sorry for you, but if you were to marry this guy he would still side with them against you somewhere down the line. It would be a very hard life. Best wishes. |
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ScardyCat
146 posts |
#51032 2008-01-12 01:17 GMT |
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Well what you need is a real man not a MOmma's boy. That's what he is because I know Dad is happy for him to amrry and move out and Momma oesn't think any girl is right for her baby. SO move on without him a nd find a real man not that one though
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LostIsland
148 posts |
#51033 2008-01-12 01:17 GMT |
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you want to marry this spineless wimp? be glad the parents forbade this mistake....
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Clatterkeys
154 posts |
#51034 2008-01-12 01:18 GMT |
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The way I look at it is, if he is 27 he should be thinking for himself and his parents shouldn't have a say so on who he marries. If he really wants to be with you he should tell his parents and if they don't understand then thats their problem. As for what you can do........ maybe try to talk to his parents and find out why they don't want him to marry you. Do they not like you for some reason or do they think its too soon?? That would be the questions I would ask. I know thats easy to say and not so easy to do but let your love for your bf drive you and speak for you.......
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ConverseShoesRule
164 posts |
#51035 2008-01-12 01:18 GMT |
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he needs to grow a pair of balls and tell his parents to stop trying to run his life
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VinyLover
166 posts |
#51036 2008-01-12 01:18 GMT |
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Get a new boyfriend. "easy-peas-y"
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Nicki
154 posts |
#51037 2008-01-12 01:18 GMT |
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depends on how old he is and the reason why they r not allow him to marry.
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JetSki
164 posts |
#51038 2008-01-12 01:19 GMT |
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tell him to cut the cord
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CherryBerry
156 posts |
#51039 2008-01-12 01:20 GMT |
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REBEL.
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Autobot
172 posts |
#51040 2008-01-12 01:21 GMT |
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tell him to grow up, and that he doesn't need his parents permission...
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